Let me tell you what I think san

 Let me tell you what I think san. Its time you pay attention.

I noticed lately that my cat Bujang has been bullying Tanaka and even Akira. I was puzzling as to why this was as he has never 'bullied' any of the cats before. He has always been quiet and would sometimes reprimand the kitties when they are too boisterous around him. These two weeks, he had bitten my arm twice and once he bit my ankle when I was brushing my teeth. He has been growling at Akira using a tone that I had never heard him use before and he had been looking at me pointedly every day when I came home from work. I had to use the Bully Remedy on him as well but will have to see if his behaviour changes during the course of this week. So I had to ask Michelle Childerley, the animal communicator to ask him a few questions about his behaviour and why. Although I have some suspicions as to why he is behaving in this puzzling way, it is also useful to know what he may be thinking about. He had asked Fern, our animal communicator friend during a Reiki session if he 'wasn't mummy's favourite cat anymore.'

1. Why is it important that you are my favourite?

Bujang said 'I was here first, recognition and loyalty.'

(This is true and I didn't tell Michelle this at all.)

2. What kind of attention do you want from me?

Bujang said 'Praise, enthusiasm, undivided 1 to 1 - not half and half.'

3. How do you think I should show you that I care for you?

Bujang said 'Appreciation. Like you are there, not somewhere else.'

4. Do you know for sure that I love you?

Bujang said 'Yes I do, pull you closer.'

5. Is it bad to love everyone equally?

Bujang said 'I am not doing anything wrong. I just need a bit more right now.'

6. Why are you upset with Akira and Tanaka?

Bujang said 'Pushing them away, jealous.'

(Fern also told me that he said Tanaka and Akira always have everything they want. But not him)

7. Do you know that I am trying to make sure they don't fight and so am trying to show both of them that they are both important?

Bujang said 'And it's taking my time.'

8. What advice can you give me about how I relate to both of them?

Bujang said 'Your actions have a big impact on them. Perseverance and determination.'

9. How should I relate to you?

Bujang said 'Consistently.' 'Competition, looking to hold a position of prestige.'

10. Is there something I should do for you that I have not yet done?

Bujang said 'No.' 'More undistracted time together.'

Michelle: I feel that he is now being a bit more demanding as he has been very patient with all the other cats. He now feels he can have more time with you.

san: I guess he told me!!

Happy Purrsday to our Rainbow Kitty Megat

Today our Rainbow Kitty Megat would have turned the Big 18 and we want to wish him happiness at the Bridge. We are still trying to figure out our place in our new household as so much of our time really revolved around him. We still have his soft toy out, in the window seat as he liked being there in the afternoons but of course that seat is now taken by Tanaka who likes to spend his afternoons in the quiet of the room. In this post we are putting up a few of his pictures from Dec 2006 as we thought it would be good to just visit him again.

 This picture was taken on the 14th of December 2006. I had to put him in the cage as much for his  protection as safety for the 3 kitties I had then, Toro included.

 This was what our family looked like with all the kitties outside. This was before the BIG fight Megat had with Akira. Bujang was nowhere to be seen as Bujang was afraid of Shaolin Megat (as we had called him then.

Megat was smart and figured out the only way he would be allowed to stay was to get into grandma's good books- which he did :)

This was what he looked like then, when we had rescued him all those years ago.

After about 6 years that he was our dear kitty, he transformed to look like this. This was taken about 6 months before he went to the bridge.

 

Of course I had asked Michelle, to speak with him at the bridge about a month after he passed and I had asked him how it was there and what his job was.

 

Megat (the Bridge): There are many of us here, you feel shaken up, don't worry I am fine.

Megat (his job): Welcome, come along in, meet and greet. (I guess he is welcoming animals to the bridge. This was very different from what he would have done here.He was very protective of his space)

Today of course is also the day that we donate food to shelter cats and so I think that is what we would do to celebrate his birthday.

HAPPY PURRSDAY AT THE BRIDGE MEGAT

You are always with us.