Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Tuesday, October 02, 2018

Family

Popps has become increasingly curious about the goings-on outside of the flat. We now have cat-safe 2 inch grills so we open the windows to allow for the breeze. So she also gets the breeze that flows through the house with all the attendant noise of people walking past, vendors bringing groceries and me ringing the bell. She usually meows to welcome me home when she sees me at the door and then she would immediately get down and go to the kitchen for a little snack of raw mackeral. She doesn't do this for anyone else though. She associates me with fish :)

These days she would watch amost of the people and would be curiously looking at them walking past. Before, she would just sleep on and she doesn't care about what happens outside of the flat.
She is also much more fond of Tanaka and they sometimes share the same space. In this pic, Ms Akira is under the table watching the both of them. Tanaka makes sure that when he is outside and Rez is about, that he stays close to his sisters as they would protect him and make sure he gets to sleep safely. Sometimes Popps would reprimand him if he has the zoomies as she finds it 'irritating' that he runs about the house. She has also taken to reprimanding Rez when he does the same. She told Fern last week that she feels more like 'family' these days. Also she knows that we have been trying to accommodate her preference for pine litter. Pine litter is dusty and as a result both Bujang and I keep sneezing for months and even Rez keeps itching because of the dust (we suspect). SO now she is trying to use another pine litter that is less dusty and she knows that we are using tofu litter in the bedroom. She doesn't like tofu as 'it smells funny' and would pee just outside the tofu litter box. But we told her that she has 2 other boxes with pine that she can use and please not to pee outside the tofu litter box. She says that she will 'try'. Hmmmm. 

Monday, April 16, 2018

Metamorphosis

2.5 years ago he was called Blackie, just for the color of his coat. This was Blackie after dinner. When he heard the key rings, he would yell for us to wait so we would know he was coming to dinner. he had only 2 meals a day and sometimes not even that as he would sometimes be afraid to come out if he was chased off by people the day before. Sometimes there would be feral dogs who would come for food left by others and chase him off.
Last year, on this date he looked like this. Still surprised and he was not allowed free reign of the whole house yet. so I would have taken this picture when I was home and it would have been late afternoon.
This was last Sunday. He owns the bedroom now. He had been allowed full reign of the house but he decided that my bedroom was best. Now, however, little by little he has decided to come out in the evening to sit with the family which was good. It allows the otehr cats to get used to his presence and for him to figure out what living with a family is like. It took Popps about a year to figure this out. Rezki is taking a much longer time. This will be his 3rd year in the house. 

Monday, December 23, 2013

Tanaka and Bujang on friendship and girls

For visitors who are here by accident: I had asked Laura Stinchfield, the animal communicator, to talk to my cats as we are having some trouble with 2 of them, Tanaka and Akira. Tanaka has been chasing her non-stop for many years and this had unsettled her and contributed to her over- grooming and stress. Laura had spoken to them 2 years ago and since then I had found osteopath help for Akira as part of the trouble was physical as well.

This time (19 Dec 2013), I had asked Laura to get all of them to speak together so everyone knows what the other one feels about the issues of friendship, family, behaviour, calming signals and training. There are many other things as well and I thought this being the last week of 2013, I would write about our conversations. 

(Laura and I) asked Tanaka why he makes Akira upset and why he chases her all the time. 
                           
Tanaka: I have been upset also. I have been thinking about Akira and how we have lessons (leash training) and I wonder if Akira thinks it is fun. I have been upset that she is in our house cause I feel she is mom's favorite. Sometimes I feel she makes my mom happy and I make my mom mad. 

You don't think I know how to be friends. If I don't know how to be friends then how do I become friends or know that?

(Laura asked me what she should tell Tanaka and we decided that we should tell him that he should behave like he bahaves with Bujang - sitting calmly together, eating together, leaving each other alone, calming signals and giving each other space)

Bujang is different cause he doesn't get upset and feisty in his body. He doesn't get anxious with his body. I have to say that if I ask her a question she usually doesn't answer. If I say take your time, what do I do then?

(At this point in the conversation Bujang decided to interrupt and to give Tanaka advice)
                            
Bujang: I have to say something. What would help him is to realize that she is female and we are male. He doesn't understand that females think differently. Females are more like ....they have more energy to them and complexity. She thinks a lot. She is always thinking and we don't think that much and so the thinking makes Tanaka nervous but he should just wait and let her think things out and then deal with it. I am really calm and when he puts pressure on me I don't move a lot and she moves a lot and that causes problems with him cause that makes him nervous. I think he just needs to realize he is him and she is her and they just need to let that be without getting wrapped up in each other. 

(At this point Laura told him that Akira is just a little scared of him and as family they should take care of one another. She also told him that Akira is family)

Tanaka: She is not a bad cat? She doesn't hate me?

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Morning calm...

Yes san...he only pretends to be nice to me...

The puzzling pair hanging out together...

Humpff..I am nice. I just think he should sleep someplace else at night...that's all...

Toro and Tanaka have an uneasy friendship. They seem alright with each other in the morning and would actually sleep like this. they look a picture-perfect. However when the early morning comes around, about 3 or 4 am, Toro would sometimes slap Tanaka about and growl at him. They sleep at the opposite ends of the bed, on their own blankets. Tanaka hardly ever retaliates and would rather escape on top of the cupboard where Toro's short legs cannot bring him. However after this short episode of slapping and growling, they would spend the time togther quite calmly for the rest of the day. they would even play with each other. Strange kitties :)Posted by Picasa

Thursday, October 09, 2008

Fluffy adopted

Fluffy (now Muffy) on his first day at school...

Fluffy or now Muffy has been adopted by Moo Moo's mom. Now she has 6 cats that she has adopted from various places. He has a nice garden and 5 siblings to play with although he has taken quite a shine to Moo Moo's mom's brother. I am glad for Muffy as he has a furrever home now :)

His family consists of Moo Moo (who is also Bujang's little bro), then there is his sisfur Blackie (from my void deck), then Mooty (Bujang's little brother who is siamese through and through with white fur and blue eyes) and there are the twin tabbies Mickey and Minnie (from Felicia the groomer). Bujang, Moo Moo and Mooty share the same siamese mom.

Sunday, July 06, 2008

Family on sunday

Just hanging out on sunday as usual...

Megat likes hanging out here on any day at all. I think because its away from the thoroughfare and he gets a nice breeze...This Sunday, he watched everyone from the safety of this tree:)


Tuesday, April 22, 2008

Family time

Ms Akira decided she could do with some family time today...

Actually relaxing in the room, sitting next to Toro!

3 is family :)
I do not know if the Remedy has anything to do with her desire to be with others these days. She has frequently seeked them out as well as us and she would spend some time with us. She is also asking quite vocally for more attention and so we try our best to be with her, even if we have to sit with her on the kitchen floor.

Sunday, November 25, 2007

Just so-so news...

Ms Akira in a trench of grandma's making...





I thought I should just revert to a heading of only one amigo at a time as it allows for much detail. I tried the 4 amigos in a row heading and didn't like it as much as the amigos are all squashed together.
I am trying to find another groomer for Toro as F was let off by PL. I do not see any of the people that I recognise at PL groomers anymore and I do not want Toro to have a bad experience. He had a terrible experience once with another groomer and actually scratched her. For Toro to actually scratch someone, it must have been too much for him as he has never scratched any one of us nor has he ever bitten any one of us either, even when he was impatient.
Toro is growing more and more like a grizzly and he does like sitting in one place for me to brush him. I have to follow him about. I do not want him to eat greater mouthfuls of fur as he grooms himself. I will get M to recommend me a cat groomer. I see many grooming places but only for dogs. :(